FIRST DATE MISTAKES EVERYONE SHOULD STOP DOING:
This is a good lesson for life, not just dating. Being late shows that the other person’s time isn’t important to you.
Talking only about yourself
Hey. If you’re nervous, you want to talk about something you know right? But ask the other person questions, and let them ask you questions.
The lip ambush
A first kiss has to be mutually agreed upon. You can’t just pull a surprise sneak-attack kiss.
Not offering to pay
Yes, ladies. I’m talking to you. it’s 2015. The man isn’t required or supposed to pay for everything. You should definitely offer. That said, guys, maybe don’t let her pay on the FIRST date at least.
THINGS SHE WILL EVENTUALLY DISCOVER ABOUT YOU:
New relationship? She will find out about your…
-Massive Debt. She probably already has a hint, right?
-Being a slob. Sooner rather than later.
-Having cheated before. Don’t deny it. Just say you were wrong and young and stupid.
-Your lack of traditional Guy-skills. If you can’t fix stuff. She will figure it out. Own it.
-You watch explicit content on-line. Even if the speaker is down, and you wipe out the cookies.
The key is that if she can accept all that…Marry that!
THE GIFT CARD IS THE BEST GIFT CARD EVER FOR HER!
Yes it seems lame and a cop out. The expression on her face Christmas morning may show that. But when she has time to think about it, at least she will get something she wants, not something you THOUGHT she wanted. And she loves shopping and the stores you got the gift cards for, right?